Congrats on being sober! I was not even allowed to attend a particular meeting (SAA) because it was all men and they didn't want a woman there because "you can't be addicted to porn or sex, that's a man's addiction."

People have funny ideas. It sounds like you've gotten to a much healthier place which is great. I hate addiction. I'm glad you got sober early on, and I'm glad you were able to work through stuff.

By the way, I hate how they always believe the parents over the kids. I'm sorry you weren't heard.