I know someone like this. She wants to debate everything about me and accuses me of just wanting to start fights. She thinks that my complex trauma isn’t real and that the generic advice that worked for her works for everyone and I just don’t want healing that badly. Never mind that my therapist disagrees with all of her crap. It’s quite annoying though. When I refuse to engage her she says I refuse because I know exactly what I’m doing and if I can’t win “the fight” (what fight) I’ll not talk “.