If someone wants to be friends with me but doesn’t get back to me for a week, they aren’t going to be my friend. But then again, I can take a hint. If I message someone and they don’t respond till a week later, that doesn’t work for me. So in this case we would just be incompatible as friends, because your needs and mine are different. I grew up abused and neglected, so I need friends who actually want to talk to me rather than ignore me. I realize that other people can not talk in weeks to each other and still claim to be friends but that’s a weird idea to me. Your needs clash with the other person’s needs. Neither side is wrong, but I’d be unable to be friends due to my own insecurities.