My daughter’s father made her use the men’s at first and when I found out, I put my foot down. She “passes” but that’s not the point. It’s not that he was trying to be cruel it’s that he didn’t understand her need. Now he just figured she knows where to be.

I’m always asked what we do about “the bathroom issue,” and I always ask “what issue?” There is no issue unless bigots manufacture an issue which is what they have done.