She told you first because she trusted you. :) My daughter chose the name Emily. I knew she was trans but silently waited for her to figure it out. She turned 15 this week. She’s already had to be removed from school and had a gun pulled on her. I have three sets of pending charges on the same woman for harassing her. I’m terrified of the future for her sake. Red Ohio is just as bad as Mississippi. I hope Emma is doing well. :)