This is like the people who want to excuse older generations for spanking their kids because it was "acceptable" back then. Abuse has never been acceptable just because society decided they were okay with it.

His actions here are not acceptable and aren't acceptable in any context even if some people are okay with it. I can guarantee he's done this before. He's just sorry it was caught on video. He's a grown ass man he knows it's wrong.

As far as sucking on tongues in kissing...it's so grossly overrated. I hate it.